What makes life Happy?

Hakuna kitu kitakacho weza kufanya maisha yako kuwa ya furaha kama hutakubali kujipokea mwenyewe na kupanga mfumo mzima wa maisha yako. Wengi tunajikuta katika mahangaiko na mafarakano katika uhusiano iwe wa ndoa, au marafiki wa kawaida. Je ulisha wahi kukaa chini na kujadili kwa nini hili litokee, na je ni kweli kwamba katika haya yote hakuna jibu kwa matatizo hayo.

Mpenzi msomaji wangu katika kuchunguza hilo nimegundua kwamba tuliowengi hatuipi nafasi mioyo yetu kuchagua kile kilicho halali kwa matakwa yetu. Bali tunafuata mwelekeo wa mapendeleo yetu na tunaacha nafasi mhimu ya moyo kuupa nafasi ya kuchagua kilicho cha dhamani zaidi ya furaha ya siku moja, ambao tuliowengi tumekua tukiililia au kuionea fahari. Hapa nina maana kwamba kama mwanamke ameahidiwa kuoelewa basi atataka haja hiyo itekelezwe wakati hana uhakika wa kweli kama mpenzi wake anampenda kwa dhati.

Kunasemi zisemazo kwamba; Mwanamke anapotoa uamuzi wa kuolewa anafanya hivi akitegemea kwamba mwanamme anayeolewa naye atabadilika baada ya wao kuwa mke na mme; Pole ndugu yangu umepotea, badili mwelekeo olewa na mtu mwenye mapenzi ya dhati na ambaye yupo tayari kutoa dhamiri yake kwa ajili yako.

Na kwa upande mwingine, Mwanaume anamwoa mwanamke na kumleta ndani ya nyumba akitegema kuwa hatabadilika; Mungu wangu mwanadamu mbona unakuwa kigegeu hivi, sasa nikutendee nini ndipo ulidhike? Naamini wanawake wengi wanavumilia katika mahusiano ila wapo ambao nao ni wasumbufu, kwasababu tu ya tamaa, na wengine hujikuta wanabadilika kwa kuwa maisha magumu ndani ya ndoa, na wengine umasikini, wanataka kupata chochote au kuiga ufahali wa wengine.

Swali linakuja je, unafikiri kukamatana ugoni na kuoneshana kwenye vyombo vya habari kwamba nataka kumshikisha adabu ajifunze ni njia sahihi ya kutatu matatizo katika jamii kama watu hawata tumia njia ya kuuweka wazi moyo wao kwa kile kweli wanacho kipenda na kukitamaani?

Nimeweka baadhi ya Picha hapa zinapendeza sana lakini nichangamoto kwamba kweli tulicho kiamua pamoja na kukubaliana basi kiheshimiwe na kuthaminiwa kama kweli hunipendi sema toka mwanzo liwe wazi usitake maisha ya mtelemko kwa kuwa unayemwoa ananafasi nzuri na wewe unavimba kichwa kwa sifa ya kazi yake na sio mapenzi ya kweli. Wewe utakuwa msaliti.

Maisha ya ndoa nikuwa tayari kwa ajili ya mwingine wakati wa raha na shida kwa furaha na amani bila majuto.

Picha kwa hisani ya kaka Michuzi.

Je unaweza kumridhisha kila mtu?

The problems with GUYS :

If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;

If u Don't , he says u are PROUD .

If u DRESS Nicely , he says u are trying to LURE him;

If u Don't , he says u are from VILLAGE .

If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN ;

If u keep QUIET , he says u have no BRAINS .

If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE ;

If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT .

If u don't L ove him, he tries to POSSESS u;

If u Love him! , he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)

If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him;

If u do !! he says u are CHEAP.

If u tell him your PROBLEM , he says u are TROUBLESOME ;

If u don't , he says that u don't TRUST him.

If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;

If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED ;

If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.

If u SMOKE , u are BAD girl;

If he SMOKES , he is GENTLEMAN .

If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK ;

If he does WELL , it's BRAINS .

If u HURT him, u are CRUEL ;

If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE !!

& sooo hard to please !!!!!

Did you have these facts in your mind?

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN! . When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

Twenty: Spend some time alone.

A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

Unakuwa na mawazo gani unapoamua kuoa?

Tomorrow you may propose a working woman,

but you should marry with these facts firmly grounded in your mind........

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.


One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name,

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen


One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;


One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise


One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;


One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities and most importantly - Your understanding, or love, if you may call it. But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER" ==========

Prayer

Do you remmber to praye? If your answer is yes then you are blessed and not what are waiting for now to beginn now? Here its for you.

Relax your mind and humble your heart to focus on Christ. Allow God to be the only person on your mind while you read this prayer . If we can take the time to read long jokes , st ories etc., we should give the same respect to this prayer. Friends, who pray together, stay together.


Dear Lord, I thank you for this day. I thank You for my being able to see and to hear this morning. I'm blessed because You are a forgiving God and an understanding God. You have done so much for me and You keep on blessing me. Forgive me this day for everything I have done, said or thought that was not pleasing to you. I ask now for Your forgiveness.

Please keep me safe from all danger and harm. Help me to start this day with a new attitude and plenty of gratitude. Let me make the best of each and every day to clear my mind so tha t I can hear from You.

Please broaden my mind that I can accept all things.

Let me not whine and whimper over things I have no control over. Let me continue to see sin through God's eyes and acknowledge it as evil. And when I sin, let me repent, and confess w ith my mouth my wrongdoing, and receive the forgiveness of God.

And when this world closes in on me, let me remember Jesus' example -- to slip away and find a quiet place to pray. It's the best response when I'm pushed beyond my limits. I know that when I can't pray, You listen to my heart. Continue to use me to do Your will.

Continue to bless me that I may be a blessing to others. Keep me strong that I may help the weak. Keep me uplifted that I may have words of encouragement for others. I pray for those who are lost and can't find their way. I pray for those who are misjudged and misunderstood. I pray for those who don't know You intimately. I pray for those who will delete this without sharing it w ith others. I pray for those who don't believe. But I thank you that I believe.

I believe that God changes people and God changes things. I pray for all my sisters and brothers. For each and every family member in their households. I pray for peace, love and joy in their homes that they are out of debt and all their needs are met.

I pray that every eye that reads this knows there is no problem, circumstance, or situation greater than God. Every battle is in Your hands for You to fight. I pray that these words be received into the hearts of every eye that sees them and every mouth that confesses them willingly..

This is my prayer.
In God's Name, May God bless you.

If you were you what would you have said?

Katika maisha kunamambo mengi ya kufikirika sana. Tafakari usemi huu "Usijibu swali kama hujalielewa kwani ukijibu jibu lako halitakuwa sahihi." Na hii ndiyo busara kukaa kinywa. Kwani sio wote wanaokaa kinywa wanamajibu sahihi.

Pima uwezo wako wa kisaikolojia katika kuyachambua maisha yaliyojaa semi na mafumbo. Ungekuwa wewe katika mazingira kama haya ungefanya nini? Angalia maswali hayo hapo chini.

Mpendwa Mungu hana hiana Mshukuru Mungu kwa hilo

Below are the Interview Questions, which were asked in HR Round.....

Be careful while you answering, No one will GET second chance to impress....

Very very Impressive Questions and Answers..... ...

Question 1: You are driving along in your car on a wild, stormy night,

it's raining heavily, when suddenly you pass by a bus stop, and you see three people waiting for a bus:


An old lady who looks as if she is about to die.
An old friend who once saved your life.
The perfect partner you have been dreaming about.

Which one would you choose to offer a ride to,

knowing very well that there could only be one passenger in your car?

This is a moral/ethical dilemma that was once actually used as part of a job application.

* You could pick up the old lady, because she is going to die, and thus you should save her first;

* or you could take the old friend because he once saved your life, and this would be the perfect chance to ! pay him back.

* However, you may never be able to find your perfect mate again.

The candidate who was hired (out of 200 applicants) had no trouble coming up with his answer. Guess what was his answer?

He simply answered:

"I would give the car keys to my Old friend and let him take the lady to the hospital.

I would stay behind and wait for the bus with the partner of my dreams."

Sometimes, we gain more if we are able to give up our stubborn thought limitations. Never forget to "Think Outside the Box."

Question 2: What will you do if I run away with your sister?"

The candidate who was selected answered " I will not get a better match for my sister than you sir"

Question 3: Interviewer (to a student girl candidate) - What is one morning you woke up & found that you were pregnant.

Girl - I will be very excited and take an off, to celebrate with my husband.

Normally an unmarried girl will be shocked to hear this, but she managed it well. Why I should think it in the wrong way, she said later when asked

Question 4: Interviewer: He ordered a cup of coffee for the candidate.

Coffee arrived kept before the candidate, then he asked what is before you?

Candidate: Instantly replied "Tea"

He got selected.

You know how and why did he say "TEA" when he knows very well that coffee was kept before.

(Answer: The question was "What is before you (U - alphabet)
Reply was "TEA" ( T - alphabet)

Alphabet "T" was before Alphabet "U"

Question 5: The interviewer asked to the candidate "This is your last question of the interview.

Please tell me the exact position of the center of this table where u have kept your files."

Candidate confidently put one of his finger at some point at the table and told that this was the central point at the table.

Interviewer asked how did u get to know that this being the central point of this table,

then he answers quickly that sir u r not likely to ask any more question, as it was the last question that u promised to ask.....

And hence, he was selected as because of his quick-wittedness. ........


This is What Interviewer expects from the Interviewee. ....

Baadhi ya kweli Katika maisha

Mpendwa msomaji ni kwa mara nyingine tena tunakutana kuona baadhi ya kweli katika maisha, basi nakukaribisha kuzisoma na uzitafakari: Tusiende pupa tutafakari kwanza ukweli uko wapi na usiamini kila lisemwalo na watu kuwa ni la kweli na Asilimia 98% ya mambo ambayo tunahofia yatatukia hayatokei.

Je ulilijua hilo!!!!!

There is only one difference between dream and Aim,
Dream requires Soundless Sleep to see,
Where as Aim requires Sleepless Efforts to Achieve.

Face your Past without regreat,
Handle your present with confidence.
Prepare for the future without fear,
Keep faith and drop the fear.

Don't believe your doubts and never doubt your beliefs.
Life is wonderful if you know how to live it.

Hapa tunaingia kwenye uwanja wa kutumia mbongo na sio ubongo tu, kwani watu wengi wanafahamu kuongea lakini hawatafakari kwa kina kile wanachokiongea, falsafa inasema uwe mwepesi wa kufikiri lakini mtaratibu katika kuongea. Ikiwa na maana kwamba, 'Be quick in thinking but speak less!' Kwa utangulizi huu nakuandaa kuzikabili kweli hizi ambatana nami ...... Twende sasa!!!!.

If your father is a poor man,it is your fate but,
if your father- in-Law is a poor man,
it is your stupidity.

I was born Intelligent,
Education ruined Me

Practice makes perfect.....
But nobody's perfect...
So why practice?

It is true that we are here to help others,

Then what exactly are the others here for?

Since light travels faster than sound,
People appear bright until you hear them speak.

Money is not every thing,
There's Mastercard & Visa.

Behind every successful Man,
there is a Woman.
And behind every unsuccessful Man,
there are two.

Every Man should marry,
After all, happiness is not the only
thing in life.

The wise never marry,
and when they marry they become
otherwise.

'Your future depends on your dreams'
So go to sleep.

'Hard work never killed anybody'
But why take the risk.

'Work fascinates me'
I can look at it for hours.

God Made relatives;
Thank God we can choose our friends.

The more you learn, the more you know,
The more you know, the more you forget,
The more you forget, the less you know,
So .. Why to learn.

Learn to accept yourself the way you are,
You will have success in life

Mafanikio yanakujaje?

Wengi tunajiuliza hivi mafanikio yanakujaje?

Sijambo rahisi mtu kulala na kuamka asubuhi na kujikuta umekuwa Tajiri, hii ni ndoto, wengi wetu hatujishughulishi tunategemea kila kitu kinapatikana kwa urahisi.

Wahenga wanamisemo kama hii, fanya kazi kama mtumwa ili uishi kama Tajiri. Mtegemea cha nduguye hufa masikini. Ni kweli kwani hutakuwa na ma wazo mapya ya kuanzisha cha kwako.
Tuige mifano baadhi ya wasanii walioonesha msimamo wao katika maisha. Hii iwe changamoto kwako na kwangu.

Nyumbani kwa akina nanihii...